15 Unwritten Teen Rules in the ’70s

By Ace Vincent | Published

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Growing up in the 1970s meant navigating a world without smartphones, social media, or helicopter parents. Teenagers followed an unspoken code of conduct that shaped their social interactions and daily lives during this distinctive decade of bell-bottoms and vinyl records.

Here is a list of 15 unwritten rules that teenagers lived by during the groovy ’70s.

Phone Etiquette

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Calling a friend’s house meant potentially chatting with their parents first. Teens learned to master the art of polite conversation with adults before asking for their friend.

The shared family phone created natural time limits on conversations, with many households enforcing a maximum when others were waiting to use the line.

Record Store Protocol

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It was necessary to handle the album covers carefully to prevent breaking the goods. Serious music lovers mastered the art of slipping records out of their sleeves just enough to inspect their condition without taking them out entirely.

By talking about obscure bands and album tracks instead of just the radio successes, record store regulars gained respect.

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Drive-In Theater Rules

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The back row was unofficially reserved for couples who wanted privacy, while families with children claimed the middle section. Teens quickly learned to bring extra blankets regardless of the weather, serving the dual purpose of warmth and creating a comfortable seating area outside the car during intermission.

Concert Lighter Code

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During an encore or power ballad, you might express your admiration for the performance by holding up a lit lighter. The unspoken rule was to keep it up until everyone else lowered theirs, forming a coordinated ocean of small flames that wavered to the music.

Mall Navigation

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The main gathering place for teenagers before they divided into smaller groups was the food court. In addition to some benches and spaces becoming unofficially claimed territory for particular social groups, it was deemed impolite to walk more than two abreast along the main thoroughfares.

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Mixtape Creation

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Making a mixtape required careful song selection and timing, with the most important tracks placed at the beginning of each side. The unwritten rule demanded a mix of familiar hits and personal discoveries to demonstrate both your mainstream knowledge and unique taste.

The ultimate mixtape art was creating smooth transitions between songs of different tempos and styles.

Arcade Conduct

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Placing your quarter on the arcade machine’s edge signaled you had the next game and established your place in line. Experienced players avoided hogging popular machines during peak hours.

Beginners were granted a bit of extra grace as they learned the controls.

TV Scheduling

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Family television viewing meant compromising on program choices, with most households following an unspoken rotation system. Teens learned to plan their social schedules around must-watch programs.

Missing an episode meant waiting months for a possible rerun.

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Denim Management

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The proper breaking-in of new jeans involved wearing them as long as possible before the first wash. Friends would validate when jeans had reached the perfect level of worn-in comfort and style.

Some dedicated teens even wore new pairs into swimming pools to speed up the softening process.

Roller Rink Hierarchy

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The center of the roller rink belonged to the skilled skaters who could perform tricks and dance moves. Beginners understood they should stick to the outer edges until they developed enough confidence and ability to venture inward.

This created a natural skill-based zoning system.

Gas Station Pooling

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When gas prices soared during the energy crisis, teens developed sophisticated money-pooling systems for fuel. The driver received slightly more credit for wear and tear on their vehicle.

Passengers were expected to contribute proportionally to the distance traveled.

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Party Contributions

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Showing up empty-handed to a party was a serious social faux pas. Teens without access to refreshments could contribute by bringing music or offering to help clean up afterward.

They could also serve as the designated driver for friends who might need a ride home.

Radio Recording

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Sitting ready with your cassette recorder to capture favorite songs from the radio required quick reflexes and patience. The unwritten rule acknowledged that nobody commented on the DJ’s voice at the beginning or end of a recorded song.

These were expected imperfections in an era before digital downloads.

Library Conduct

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The school library served as a legitimate social space where teens could exchange notes and arrange after-school activities. Different tables had unspoken designations—some for actual studying, others for quiet socializing.

Librarians generally tolerated the system as long as volume levels remained reasonable.

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Payphone Courtesy

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Finding a payphone with a forgotten coin return bounty was considered lucky, but discovering a payphone with an ongoing conversation meant walking away to find another. The emergency exception allowed for politely asking to use the phone for a genuinely urgent call.

Most teens honored this request when made.

Timeless Teen Experience

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The unwritten rules of ’70s teen life reflect a world where young people navigated social spaces without constant adult supervision or digital connection. These informal codes created a shared understanding that helped teens manage their expanding independence while maintaining group harmony.

Though the specific rules have evolved with changing technology and cultural norms, today’s teenagers continue to develop their own unwritten social codes. The fundamental teenage experience of creating identity through shared practices remains remarkably consistent across generations, even as the details shift with the times.

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